DO'S AND DON'TS

6 CHARACTERISTICS OF THE ALPHA MALE (taken from Mystery in the Game by Neil Strauss)

•1-Confidence
•2-Smile
•3-Well Groomed
•4-Sense of Humor
•5-Connecting with people
•6-Being seen as the social center of a room


DONT'S (David DeAngelo)

•A lot of success with women is about not just scoring points, but not losing points.

•In fact, we do A LOT of things, simply to disarm her of dismissing us. By her not dismissing us, we give her more time to get to know us.

•Note- we want to focus on what to do rather than what we don’t want to do.

•Nonetheless, here are a few don’ts.

•Never whine about, complain about, or even mention: Being single, lonely, unlovable, or a loser.

•having bad luck or no luck

•Asking: how long its been since your last date or am I your type or what kind of guys you usually go for.

•Saying you don’t deserve a girl as good as her

•What she thinks/how she is feeling about you.

•"If we met at a bar would you be attracted to me?"


CAT STRING THEORY

•A cat will go crazy trying to grab a string dangling just out of its reach.

•A cat will then ignore the string once it is dropped on the ground.

•WHY? Once the chase is gone, its no longer interested.

•NEVER FORGET THIS, EVER.


BASIC RULES FOR FLIRTING

•Never give a woman a direct answer unless its no.

•If she complains just say, “I’m glad you like it.” OR “well you’re not gonna like me because I do that all the time.”

•Always send mixed signals ie. tell her you wanna be friends then give her a kiss OR if she does something good spank her.

•Respond differently to the same thing.

*Never be predictable.

•Never give her exactly what she wants (everything is done on your terms).